Thu, Aug. 21st, 2014, 02:58 pm
Stop believing your kid isn't capable of things. Yes if someone is saying hey this and this happened chances are they didn't pull it out of their ass so before you get defensive be open minded to the fact that no matter how "in touch" you are with your child you still have no clue some more so than others, obviously. So recognize yes your kid has and will make many, many mistakes. Acknowledge it, correct it, and let them learn from it and bear the consequences. At the end of the day it's better to teach and let your child learn life lessons when there younger than having no clue when there older because you were in denial, over protective, or sheltering them from what was reality and what is reality. End rant.
Being good with words and explaining yourself properly is a gift. You can say things and be completely honest and it's accepted by the other person as opposed to someone without that eloquence. Their honestly turns everything into a fight. Speech is such a strong thing.
So sad to see such talent be in such a dark place to take their own live. Just shows you no matter what you have you can still be in a dark place. Rest easy.
Had a great weekend as opposed to what I had prepared myself for. Had a great night with my boyfriend we talked about a lot of things we never have before. Almost like cracking through another wall in our relationship and starting to build a new chapter which is always a great feeling and now of course I want to maintain that great feeling. Yay. Then boom now I'm back "home" tired, irritated, and just want to relax. Simple enough right. Well my worlds a little different because I currently share a living space with my bf and his mother. It's very hard to be very appreciative of what someone does for you and not feel rude because your someone that requires and needs their own space to function maintain sanity, and really just to be pleasant person. shopping for my own place is frustrating enough as is for anyone that has apartment hunted before. Makes it hard too when your boyfriend doesn't need or require his own space and time and is completely used being asked 101 questions and having no real privacy and has never lived on his own and experienced true freedom as an adult. I always wonder in my frustrations if I'm alone in this feeling or if there are others this share my unique situation. It's hard I think as a woman you want a man and to look at your boyfriend or husband as the man of the house and that's completely deflected when he's still answering to his mother on everything. What's more difficult is who do you get mad at in the situation? It's a hard call because you immediately feel like you lose the right to any of those types of feelings when your still in that parents house. Honestly, I think I get most mad at the boyfriend that hasn't done much to help us get out of this situation so we could all be happier or mad at myself for not being able to do it on my own. See and these are the thoughts I don't want to have again after the great progress and doors I feel we've opened in.the relationship. Patience.
So to the non super moon believers.... Shit hit the fan last night and not just for me (although my Issues temporarily) I couldn't even tell you what started a massive blow out between my boyfriend and I and why some may find this obviously a completely negative thing. The positive is we were able to recover and I didn't end up packing my bags and going home like the last super moon. Then, I get a call from my best friend at 1:50 this morning in hysterics. Her life is falling apart and can't be fixed and she needs me to come get her. While I would love to have been able to be there to fix everything I was intoxicated I was recovering from my mess. So while this morning has been nice and peaceful we will see how tonight goes. I'm interested to see if anyone's else night went like this? Is it just me it's a damn weird coincidence.
So I wanted to start blogging I was told I should have an advice column in the news paper and be a private investigator hah. I'm investigative by nature I'm first of all a Scorpio and secondly I was completely lied and manipulated by my ex the one I was suppose to marry and spend the rest of my life with,ect. Betrayed in the worst way possible I'm sure I will get more into it in a later post. Regardless of all that I didn't know where to start I've been stressed maybe blogging would not only help me but others. I asked about places to blog got a few different places but I thought wait where is the one place I've felt comfortable since freshman year of high school spilling my guts out. (which gosh now that I say that I didn't even make a new account to create "this") So here I am I didn't know how to ever start this again but it's a "super moon" weekend and wether it's because I'm a Scorpio or insane I swear I feel effected by these things and my life now for the second time this summer have had world war 3 go down in some aspect. Maybe I'm to intoxicated right now. Tune in I maybe only 28 but my life reflects that of a 50 year old but still relatable to people younger because I still know I've been there. Ramble ramble. This is going no where tune in. Give me topics anything and everything is fine. Ask questions. Here I am open again to the world.
Sun, Apr. 1st, 2012, 12:37 am
Sorting through old stuff first and foremost makes me feel really old secondly, cracks me up... So glad for the internet and its ability to take me through a time line of my life..
Thu, Aug. 18th, 2011, 02:08 am
Wowpretty shocked lifejournal has a iPhone app. Oh goodness.
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Thu, Jan. 7th, 2010, 03:47 pm
I was reading some letters from freshman and sophomore year of high school.. It was interesting and reminded me of the Taylor Swift song.. Its so true when your fifteen and somebody tells you they love you your going to believe it.. Oh the days when everything that was thought to be so serious is so simple... The good ol days..